How can I prevent sexual dissatisfaction?

dsnider29106/08/2008 7:54AM

sex, love and marriage are what you put into it. my husband has erectile dysfunction for 5 yrs now,but we have been married for 35 yrs. we still satisfiy one another in different ways.

jaimex106/08/2008 2:42AM

well as of what ive known its better not to thing about things like that, but it would be a good idea to talk to ur husband about ur sexual needs, i mean sex isnt everything but it brings us closer to each other, pishh id rather die then be impotent because of some meds... i mean it.. hehehe.. but talk to him i mean thats why u chose to be with him right? to be ther for each other just like if he dosent like something about you then u expect him to do the same thing L:)

jaimex106/08/2008 2:42AM

well as of what ive known its better not to thing about things like that, but it would be a good idea to talk to ur husband about ur sexual needs, i mean sex isnt everything but it brings us closer to each other, pishh id rather die then be impotent because of some meds... i mean it.. hehehe.. but talk to him i mean thats why u chose to be with him right? to be ther for each other just like if he dosent like something about you then u expect him to do the same thing L:)

jaimex106/08/2008 2:41AM

well as of what ive known its better not to thing about things like that, but it would be a good idea to talk to ur husband about ur sexual needs, i mean sex isnt everything but it brings us closer to each other, pishh id rather die then be impotent because of some meds... i mean it.. hehehe.. but talk to him i mean thats why u chose to be with him right? to be ther for each other just like if he dosent like something about you then u expect him to do the same thing L:)

kliptwings06/08/2008 1:10AM

I haven't had sex with my husband of almost 14 years - in over 5 years, and I think only once in the previous year...and yet I'm still here. Is it because I feel old and unattractive? Who out there would WANT me? My husband is a good guy, but I feel he may have cheated on me either last year or the year before, and recently tried to reconnect with this woman. My world shattered! Here I am doing the cooking cleaning laundry etc. Working, too. And while I was living with no sex I suddenly wondered what in the world am I doing? I counseled with my pastor. For 8 months I've lived with this knowledge, and insecurity, and total lack of trust. Now if we argue over anything, I immediately think - he's going to go to her. I lost it tonight and said this to him. I'm 61, but would like to be intimate with him. I'm afraid to come on to him, because he's basically impotent because of prescription drugs, and I don't want him to feel bad if he can't perform. He's like my best friend, but I want him to be close to me again...how to approach without making him feel worse? I'm at my wits end...if I leave him, I'd probably just be a lonely old woman. (I look good and a LOT younger than what I am - and very young at heart. He seems very content the way things are...but then I think about this other woman.

dawnderful06/07/2008 9:12PM

Excellent!