Christopher and Dana Reeve Love Story
"Real Love is a Very Rare and Precious Thing"
By Christopher Andersen. Excerpted from Somewhere in Heaven (Hyperion, 2008)
That fate could have dealt such a cruel hand to this golden couple seemed unfathomable. That they could endure it all with grace, courage and humor defied belief.
Read the story of their love-struck first meeting below.
Christopher and Dana Reeve book
Together, Forever
After five years together, Dana Morosini and marriage-shy Superman Chris Reeve finally tied the knot in a small ceremony near Williamstown, MA, in April 1992. She gave birth to Will two months later.
Courting Days
Chris and Dana ham it up during a duet at the Williamstown, Massachusetts Theater Festival Cabaret in July 1987. Only days before, on this same stage, he saw her for the first time -- and, Chris recalled, "I went down hook, line and sinker."
The Ice Man Cometh
Chris and Dana take to the ice in January 1991. He was an expert skater who played varsity hockey at prep school; she was "just holding on to him for dear life."
Secret to Their Success
Chris never doubted why their marriage -- and their devotion to each other -- endured. "Our love is built on a rock," he said, "like a lighthouse."
Before the Fall
Chris and his horse Buck proved a formidable team at the King Oak Farm Horse Trials on May 14, 1995. Less than two weeks later, on May 27, in Virginia, Buck would stop short while making a similar jump -- with tragic consequences for Chris.
The Sweetest Thing
At the Kessler Institute for Rehabilitation in West Orange, NJ, Chris got his best medicine from three-year-old Will. A kiss.
Steppin' Out
Dana lovingly reassured Chris just minutes before he presented an award to Robin Williams at the annual Creative Coalition dinner on October 17, 1995, his first public appearance after the accident.
Surprise Appearance
After his stunning surprise appearance at the 1996 Oscars, Chris and Dana, joined by Robin Williams, congratulated Best Actress winner Susan Sarandan (for Dead Man Walking) at the Governor's Ball that followed.
Back in Action
With Dana taking the helm behind him, Chris and his wheelchair had to be literally strapped to the deck when he returned to the sea in the summer of 1996.
Joke's On You
Paul Newman got the joke when Dana playfully covered Chris's eyes at a party following her October 1998 Broadway debut in "More to Love." But Will, at his daddy's side, didn't seem to sure.
June 30, 1987, Williamstown, Massachusetts
He simply could not take his eyes off her. Wearing a short black off-the-shoulder evening dress, her auburn hair tumbling
over tanned shoulders, Dana Morosini confidently took the
microphone off the stand and gazed through the blue haze of cigarette
smoke out over the heads of those sitting ringside. Then,
in a sweet mezzo-soprano, she eased into Jule Styne's lyrical ballad
"The Music That Makes Me Dance."
Williamstown was, in many ways, home to Christopher Reeve.
It was here, at the annual theater festival held on the campus of
Williams College, that Chris had come every summer since 1968
to sharpen his skills as a stage actor. As he had also done every year since 1968, Chris -- cast this season in Aphra Behn's costume
drama The Rover -- after a hard day's rehearsal unwound with his
fellow actors at the 1896 House, a quaint white-clapboard country
inn nestled in the Berkshire hills.
Each night during the summer, festival-goers packed the inn's
dimly lit, ground-floor cabaret—often in hopes of seeing one of
the stars perform. Over the years Chris had gamely obliged, summoning
enough courage to take the stage and belt out numbers
by Cole Porter, Rodgers and Hammerstein, and the Gershwins.
"A lot of us have no business singing," he allowed,"but the crowd
seems to get a kick out of it."
Tonight, however, Chris was content to sit back and listen
to the Cabaret Corps, the tight little group of four professional
singers who took up the slack each evening. Reeve's friends
nudged one another as he kept staring at the slender young
singer with the enormous eyes and blinding smile. Chris was
oblivious to everything in the room—the clinking glasses, the
hum of table conversation punctuated by clattering sounds from
the kitchen, and the occasional spike of laughter -- everything
but Dana.
POW! BIFF! "That was it," Chris later said. "Right then I
went down hook, line, and sinker. She just knocked me out. A
lot of people saw that happen." The inn's co-owner, Denise
Richer, was one of them. "We kept looking at the stage, and then
at him, and then back at her," Richer said, "and we thought,
'Something's happening here.' It was so obvious." According to
fellow Rover cast member Charles Tuthill, who was standing
against the back wall with Chris, "he was totally hit between the
eyes. She took his breath away."
When her number was over, Chris shook his head in wonder.
"My God," he told his buddies, "who's that? She is incredible!"
As intently as Chris had been staring at Dana, she had been
doing her best to ignore his presence in the audience. It had been
eight years since he shot to stardom as the Man of Steel, and with
three sequels under his yellow belt, Reeve and the iconic comic
book hero he portrayed on screen now seemed virtually inseparable.
If anything, at thirty-five Reeve now seemed more physically
striking than ever. Standing a full head taller than virtually
everyone else in the room and decked out in his customary preppie
uniform of pale blue polo shirt, khakis, and Docksiders without
socks, Chris was impossible to miss. "I just pretended
Superman wasn't there," she recalled wryly. "Not as easy as it
sounds."
She had her reasons. That summer Reeve;s breakup with Gae
Exton, his girlfriend of ten years and the mother of his two children,
was grist for the rumor mill. While shooting Superman IV
in London a few months earlier, he had been romantically
linked with leading lady Mariel Hemingway. Now Williamstown
was abuzz with gossip that Chris was on the prowl.
Afterward, Chris went backstage to congratulate the woman
who had, it would turn out, won his heart with a single song.
"Hi, I'm Chris Reeve," he said with all the awkward charm of
Clark Kent.
"Yes," she replied, stifling the urge to blurt out, "You must be
kidding." Still suspicious of his motives -- her friends had warned
her he was in the audience and on the make only moments before
she stepped onstage -- she politely introduced herself in return,
and then listened as he heaped praise on her performance.
"I've always liked that song," said Chris, who sheepishly admitted
to being a fan of Broadway musicals in general and Funny
Girl in particular. "It's a great song," he told her. "You know," he
went on, struggling to make small talk, "Streisand loved that song,
but they cut it from the movie."
"I know." She nodded, trying not to appear surprised that one
of the biggest action stars of the decade not only liked show tunes
but was a Barbra Streisand fan. Maybe he wasn't going to make
a move on her, she thought. Maybe her friends were completely
wrong about Reeve and his intentions.
They were right, as it turned out. Chris and a few of his fellow
actors from the cast of The Rover were headed to The Zoo,
an after-hours Animal House–style hangout tucked away in a dormitory
on the Williams College campus. The name of the establishment
said it all.
"Would you like a ride?" he asked. "My truck is parked right
outside."
"Oh, no," Dana replied without missing a beat as several of her
friends showed up to congratulate her. "That's OK. I've got my
own car."
"Oh," Chris mumbled as she disappeared in the crowd. This
was not the kind of response Superman was accustomed to.
Dana, meantime, was being scolded by pals who had witnessed
Chris's timid overtures. "You are crazy," one chided her. "Why
don’t you go with him?"
"But I have a car," she insisted. "I can get there on my own."
"Give us your keys right now!" one demanded. "We'll drive
your damn car. Christopher Reeve wants to give you a ride.
Now go for it!"
"But why would I leave my perfectly good car in the parking
lot," Dana persisted stubbornly, “and then be stuck at the party?"
Her friends rolled their eyes, but by then it was too late; Chris
had already spun out of the parking lot behind the wheel of his
battered black pickup, hoping to meet up with Dana at The Zoo.
When he got there, he ignored his friends and did not even bother
to stop at the bar. Instead he stood where he could get a clear view
of the front door, hands thrust in his pockets, waiting for the
beautiful girl in the black off-the-shoulder dress to walk in.
Dana arrived a few minutes later, and scanned the crowd for
Chris. Their eyes locked, and within moments they were standing
together in the center of the crammed room. He had strolled
up to her with a studied nonchalance that she found disarmingly
clumsy. "Could I get you a drink?" he asked, and she said sure.
But he never did. "We didn't get a drink, we didn't sit down, we
didn't move," he later said. For the next hour, everything and
everyone around them melted away as they stood talking -- just
talking.
Don't rush this, Chris told himself. It's too important . . .
"Well," he blurted as he looked at his watch. "It's getting late
. . . It was very nice to meet you." She, in turn, shook his hand,
and a half hour later both were back home in their own beds.
They would eventually call June 30, 1987, simply "our day."
Go to the following page for the heart-wrenching tale of Superman's last day
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Recent Comments
Lauralac3 02:09:25 AM Aug 05 2008
I was blessed with the opportunity to meet Dana Reeve at a conference in 2003, where she was the key note speaker. I was on my way to the ladies room with a co-worker, Dana was walking out. We introduced ourselves, and she couldn't have been nicer. She asked about our work and was very gracious. We gave her our condolences, with regard to Chris. She hugged us both, and was very real. If more celebrities emulated the Reeves, Hollywood and this country, would be a better place.
Dutchhors 12:47:15 AM Aug 05 2008
They were very happy together, and always smiling in photos. They didn't have a long time together, but the loved a lifetime's worth.
Cooky64649 10:51:43 PM Aug 04 2008
He was kind of blah, until he became the human throw rug/door stop for the democrats, after that,,,who cares!!??
Telorvehc7 08:24:37 PM Aug 04 2008
uh oh... is reeves going to be the male version of the errantly-worshipped princess diana? i'm really sick of that sluttish nobody...
JanetheBrain7 06:36:45 PM Aug 04 2008
Thank you NO2SNO. Actually I do have personal insight. I've been a Superman fan since I was a kid. I only realized Reeve was a jerk when I met him. I was a movie critic who got a chance to interview him and he was not exactly a sweetheart. After doing the research, I found that the way he treated me was not far from my experience.
NO2SNO 06:02:36 PM Aug 04 2008
I respect Janethebrain for her views. She has maybe an insight we all don't have. Maybe - she knew him! Frankly, there are rumors about Dana and Howard Stern that floated around for YEARS! They are rumors, but hey -they are out there. People are NOT perfect - even if we always want them to be. Everyone has a public personae and a private one. If somone wishes to add their view to a public board like this - even if that view is opposite what everyone else wishes to see - knock yourself out. But don't be critical of it. THAT is what FREEDOM is all about!
JEROLDRNP 03:36:49 PM Aug 03 2008
JANETHEBRAIN---- TO BAD THE BRAIN YOU HAVE AS AN E-MAIL IS NOT IN YOUR HEAD, YOU SOUND EVIL AND DISGUSTING WHITHOUT ANY KNOWLEDGEOF THIS MAN AND HIS FAMILY. SHAME ON YOU BRAINLESS AMERICAN WONDER.
evgriffjr 03:19:46 PM Aug 03 2008
Yeah, hopefully they are resting in peace. Sad that they died within a year or so of each other.
